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Is Your Identity and Worth Up For Grabs?

On Sunday we launched our new series entitled “Dream Job”. I’m really looking forward to the next few weeks as we have a series of conversations about purpose, significance, and making our work a reflection of our relationship with God.

Yesterday we talked a lot about identity and here’s the deal.

As long as you’re trying to find your identity in “what you do” instead of “who you are” you’re going to be chronically dissatisfied in your career. This holds true whether you’re a stay at home mom, an accountant, or a law enforcement officer.

You’ll blame your dissatisfaction on the people you work with, the boss you work for, or the dead end job that you’re stuck in, but more than likely you’re just trying to get something out of your career that your career was never designed to give you.

In fact, you may have the dream job for your giftedness. However, if you try to get your identity in “what you do” at that job, instead of “who you are” you’ll sabotage that job every time. It will lead you to all kinds of unhealthy extremes such as ladder climbing and people pleasing.

So do yourself a favor. Seek your identity in “who you are”. You are more than your giftedness, more than your title, more than the name of the company on your business card.

John 1:12 Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.

What do you think? Is your identity to tied to “what you do”?

Guest Blogger-Anne Jackson (www.flowerdust.net)

I know many people have threatened to take away Pete’s “man card” in previous posts for various reasons. After he so graciously asked me to guest blog this week, I thought I’d appease the female audience and lower the testosterone quotient even more on Without Wax. Well, as much as one girl is able to do…

This video has been around for some time but every time I watch it, it amazes me. And it breaks my heart.

[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iYhCn0jf46U&feature=related]

My first couple of years in ministry I worked with junior high and high school students. One girl who I was very close with had an eating disorder she battled all throughout her teenage years. (I’m happy to report now that she is 20 and has been winning this battle!!)

It seems like most women I know struggle with some kind of distorted self-image.

That group also includes me.

Women carry a strength that is unique…and I know personally, I have allowed my own lack of self-confidence to take me down. I have let the enemy distract me with negative thoughts about things that shouldn’t really matter. That, in turn, has affected my ministry and puts a big heart-barrier up for God to work through me…all because I’m scared of what other people might think.

Our environment tends to yell a lot louder than the often subtle whispers of God.

SKINNY!!
FLAWLESS!!
TAN!!
RADIANT!!
SMOOTH!!
BOLD!!
SEXY!!

I have to intentionally turn off the noise so that I can hear the quiet but unbending truth about self worth.

faithful
loving
holy
patient
kind
good
gentle
strong
generous

What do you think?