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Worshipping Giftedness

I often hear people debate whether you can separate character and giftedness. I think this is an important debate.

Our culture tends to worship giftedness. If you can….

run faster

sell more

sing better

communicate effectively

lead charismatically

then you will more than likely rise to the top. You might even rise really fast. You will be celebrated, cheered, googled, awarded, and favored.

Point in case… Michael Phelps. Nobody on the planet would argue his talent. He’s amazing. However a recent photo of Phelps smoking marijuana out of a bong at a party in November has brought great question to his character. Once again proof that character always rises to the top. And apparently Google agrees with me. Here’s a screen shot of what you will see if you Google Michael Phelps.

google michael phelps

We worship talent. But make no mistake about it character does matter. I don’t care how talented you are eventually your character or lack of character will rise to the top. If your talent outgrows your character you’re heading for real trouble.

I don’t say this to be judgmental of Michael Phelps. Lord knows we’ve all made our fair share of stupid mistakes. I bring this up to remind each of us just how important character is. Very important. In the end character is all that you have. So grow it, protect it, develop it, but whatever you do don’t ignore it.

Your thoughts?



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Do You Have A Sabbath?

A Watercooler Wednesday entry:

So I need your help with something. Recently, I’ve been struggling with the idea of the “Sabbath”. I think this is a spiritual discipline I have ignored for most of my adult life. I have always blamed it on the fact that I work on Sundays, but I know that’s just a lame excuse.

On my way to Atlanta yesterday I was reading a book entitled “Revolution of Character” by Dallas Willard. He said….

“When we come to the place where we can joyously do no work, it will be because God is so exalted in our mind and body that we can trust him with our life and our world, and we can take our hands off them.”

Internalizing this quote made me realize that I have more work to do then I thought. To really practice the “Sabbath” I have to get to a place where I begin to let go of my tendencies to take control, achieve, produce, and attain gratification.

So let me ask you a question. Have you found a way to really trust Him with your life and world and take your hands off both?

seeking rest,

Pete