If there is one gift I wish I had that I don’t, it would be the gift of encouragement. I think this is one of the most underrated gifts which exists in the body of Christ. And whether you have the gift or not I think we’re all called and commanded to lift one another up through encouragement.
I recently received this note from Pastor Tom one of my co-workers at Cross Point, .
Pete,
Just a note tonight before you turn in…in a “firehouse moment” this afternoon, you displayed incredible calm and maturity. Sometimes I think we learn more about ourselves under fire than in calmer moments. You proved your mettle, or even metal if you count steel, today. I was reminded once again of what a rare privilege, even a joy, it is to work for and with a mature lead pastor. Your ancestors, living and gone, would be proud of you. Thanks for being a pastor even in situations where you may not immediately feel like a pastor. Sleep under God’s grace. He used you today in several ways.
Colleague Tom
You have no idea how much that note meant to me after a particularly long day. He didn’t have to send it. It was a long stressful day for him as well. But he sat down and took the time to extend the gift of encouragement and in the process bring healing to my life.
One thing I’ve discovered is we all need healing. No matter how confident or put together we look, we all need healing. We have no idea what our co-workers, friends, family members, are going through. You never know how much pain the person in front of you in line at the grocery store is in.
And generally, you have no idea how a simple word of encouragement could bring healing to their life. God has designed our souls in such a way that a simple spoken or written word can either do tremendous devastation or an outstanding amount of good to another individual.
Here’s a verse that’s really convicting me lately…
Ephesians 4:29Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Are you living that out? Who do you need to build up today with your encouragement? Has anyone given you the gift of encouragement lately in a time when you particularly needed it?