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		<title>By: Jim A</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jim A</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 14:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While leadership and communication are of course great answers, they just seem too obvious and convenient to me.  There are a lot of good leaders out there, and we have better communication technologies and processes than ever before, but we still seem to struggle to put together truly effective teams.  There is another aspect of teams that I believe is key that I am having a hard time coming up with a single word for, but the closest I can some is “humility”, which I guess is really another way of saying the willingness for all members to be “team players”.

Look at the output of the team like a math problem.  The goal is to get the best result out of the work of the team, which we could say would be the highest possible score.  Each individual member of the team had different abilities that can contribute to that total score.  In order for the whole team to achieve the highest possible score, each member of the team must be allowed to make their individual greatest potential contribution, based on their skill levels and the skill levels of other members.  In every team, you will have stronger and weaker contributors, but the key is in finding the maximum potential total team score based on each individual’s ability to contribute to the score. As an example, if my skill 1 score is a 8 and my skill 2 score is a 7 and Joe has a skill 1 score of 6 and a skill 2 score of 4, the maximum score we can get together if we each only have time to do one of these things is 13 (Joe doing skill 1 work for 6 points and me doing the skill 2 stuff for 7 points).  Where teams lose effectiveness is in two areas that tie directly back to humility.  If I insist that I am going to do the skill 1 stuff because I like it better and after all, it is my highest score, the maximum score we can achieve is a 12 (8 from me doing skill 1 and 4 from Joe doing skill 2).  If I insist that I do it all because I have higher scores in both areas, the best we can get is a 7.5 (half of my score on each since there the assumption at the beginning was that each person only had time for 1 task, so I could only get half of each done if I try to do both).  You can play with these numbers a lot of different ways, and depending on the skill mix and strength of each person, at times I might get to do the skill I like best or that I have my personal highest score in because that is how the greatest total benefit happens to add up in that case.  Humility, however,  comes in when each team member is willing to forego what they desire personally and go with what is best for the team as a whole.  If I have skills as a greeter, musician, and Kids World teacher, I need to do what I can that contributes most to the score of the team as a whole, no matter how much I might want to be the musician.

What is interesting about this model as you think through it is that if tends to contradict a general principle that I believed before you asked this question and I thought through this.  That principle is that you allow each person simply do what they are best at.  While that may improve your overall score to some degree, it will not necessarily achieve your maximum potential score.  That can only be realized by each of us deferring to others in a way that sometimes has us working on our second or third best skill because that is what the team needs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While leadership and communication are of course great answers, they just seem too obvious and convenient to me.  There are a lot of good leaders out there, and we have better communication technologies and processes than ever before, but we still seem to struggle to put together truly effective teams.  There is another aspect of teams that I believe is key that I am having a hard time coming up with a single word for, but the closest I can some is “humility”, which I guess is really another way of saying the willingness for all members to be “team players”.</p>
<p>Look at the output of the team like a math problem.  The goal is to get the best result out of the work of the team, which we could say would be the highest possible score.  Each individual member of the team had different abilities that can contribute to that total score.  In order for the whole team to achieve the highest possible score, each member of the team must be allowed to make their individual greatest potential contribution, based on their skill levels and the skill levels of other members.  In every team, you will have stronger and weaker contributors, but the key is in finding the maximum potential total team score based on each individual’s ability to contribute to the score. As an example, if my skill 1 score is a 8 and my skill 2 score is a 7 and Joe has a skill 1 score of 6 and a skill 2 score of 4, the maximum score we can get together if we each only have time to do one of these things is 13 (Joe doing skill 1 work for 6 points and me doing the skill 2 stuff for 7 points).  Where teams lose effectiveness is in two areas that tie directly back to humility.  If I insist that I am going to do the skill 1 stuff because I like it better and after all, it is my highest score, the maximum score we can achieve is a 12 (8 from me doing skill 1 and 4 from Joe doing skill 2).  If I insist that I do it all because I have higher scores in both areas, the best we can get is a 7.5 (half of my score on each since there the assumption at the beginning was that each person only had time for 1 task, so I could only get half of each done if I try to do both).  You can play with these numbers a lot of different ways, and depending on the skill mix and strength of each person, at times I might get to do the skill I like best or that I have my personal highest score in because that is how the greatest total benefit happens to add up in that case.  Humility, however,  comes in when each team member is willing to forego what they desire personally and go with what is best for the team as a whole.  If I have skills as a greeter, musician, and Kids World teacher, I need to do what I can that contributes most to the score of the team as a whole, no matter how much I might want to be the musician.</p>
<p>What is interesting about this model as you think through it is that if tends to contradict a general principle that I believed before you asked this question and I thought through this.  That principle is that you allow each person simply do what they are best at.  While that may improve your overall score to some degree, it will not necessarily achieve your maximum potential score.  That can only be realized by each of us deferring to others in a way that sometimes has us working on our second or third best skill because that is what the team needs.</p>
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		<title>By: mysoul</title>
		<link>http://withoutwax.tv/2008/10/22/im-scared-of-heights/comment-page-1/#comment-11365</link>
		<dc:creator>mysoul</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 21:30:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well-mannered people with Intergrity.</description>
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		<title>By: CK Lunchbox</title>
		<link>http://withoutwax.tv/2008/10/22/im-scared-of-heights/comment-page-1/#comment-11364</link>
		<dc:creator>CK Lunchbox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 14:19:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heights - ya, not cool. I&#039;m with you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heights &#8211; ya, not cool. I&#8217;m with you.</p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
		<link>http://withoutwax.tv/2008/10/22/im-scared-of-heights/comment-page-1/#comment-11363</link>
		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 12:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! That place has changed a lot since I went there. We had a group of about 50 people and all they had at the time were the rustic cabins and 2 port-a-johns that were in bad need of being emptied after we spent the night. Let me just say that it was gross! Looks like it has been fixed up really nicely now. I did learn a lot from their team building activities.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! That place has changed a lot since I went there. We had a group of about 50 people and all they had at the time were the rustic cabins and 2 port-a-johns that were in bad need of being emptied after we spent the night. Let me just say that it was gross! Looks like it has been fixed up really nicely now. I did learn a lot from their team building activities.</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 12:08:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love the video!!! I lost my breath when you let go~

My daughter&#039;s fiance says this to her all the time...
(We&#039;re on the)&quot;Same team Bethany, in it to win it.&quot;
Such a powerful reminder to pause and remember the end goal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love the video!!! I lost my breath when you let go~</p>
<p>My daughter&#8217;s fiance says this to her all the time&#8230;<br />
(We&#8217;re on the)&#8221;Same team Bethany, in it to win it.&#8221;<br />
Such a powerful reminder to pause and remember the end goal.</p>
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		<title>By: sara</title>
		<link>http://withoutwax.tv/2008/10/22/im-scared-of-heights/comment-page-1/#comment-11361</link>
		<dc:creator>sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 05:19:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Totally off-topic here, but I&#039;m just letting you know you are a recipient of the Honest Weblog prize on my blog. You can go here to see if I say nice things about you: http://gitzengirl.blogspot.com/2008/10/honest-weblog.html

:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Totally off-topic here, but I&#8217;m just letting you know you are a recipient of the Honest Weblog prize on my blog. You can go here to see if I say nice things about you: <a href="http://gitzengirl.blogspot.com/2008/10/honest-weblog.html" rel="nofollow">http://gitzengirl.blogspot.com/2008/10/honest-weblog.html</a><br />
 <img src='http://withoutwax.tv/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: annie</title>
		<link>http://withoutwax.tv/2008/10/22/im-scared-of-heights/comment-page-1/#comment-11360</link>
		<dc:creator>annie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 03:45:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Understanding that we all have different gifts, talents and strengths and having enough confidence to encourage one another to succeed and to utilize those talents toward a common goal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Understanding that we all have different gifts, talents and strengths and having enough confidence to encourage one another to succeed and to utilize those talents toward a common goal.</p>
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		<title>By: tam</title>
		<link>http://withoutwax.tv/2008/10/22/im-scared-of-heights/comment-page-1/#comment-11359</link>
		<dc:creator>tam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 02:04:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>didnt read thru the comments, sorry, might be repeating this...but...

important element a team needs... know the &#039;vision&#039; - share the vision.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>didnt read thru the comments, sorry, might be repeating this&#8230;but&#8230;</p>
<p>important element a team needs&#8230; know the &#8216;vision&#8217; &#8211; share the vision.</p>
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		<title>By: gleechoo</title>
		<link>http://withoutwax.tv/2008/10/22/im-scared-of-heights/comment-page-1/#comment-11358</link>
		<dc:creator>gleechoo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 01:30:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In a surgical medical team, each member is a professional and know one&#039;s function &amp; role: from principal surgeon to technicians manning the equipments to the nursing staff (and the cleaners) as room and instruments and equipments must be kept sterile! Every member must be on the alert during the surgery.

However in church, we&#039;re dealing with people. We need to respond and NOT react. When we respond, we enter the spirit of charity -- graciousness and understanding in why he said or did that. By responding there must be some form of action taken thereafter -- gratitude or change of attitude.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a surgical medical team, each member is a professional and know one&#8217;s function &amp; role: from principal surgeon to technicians manning the equipments to the nursing staff (and the cleaners) as room and instruments and equipments must be kept sterile! Every member must be on the alert during the surgery.</p>
<p>However in church, we&#8217;re dealing with people. We need to respond and NOT react. When we respond, we enter the spirit of charity &#8212; graciousness and understanding in why he said or did that. By responding there must be some form of action taken thereafter &#8212; gratitude or change of attitude.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian Howe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian Howe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 00:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Conflict!! Nothing Great ever happens without some good old fashion conflict. My Pastor expects conflict...and we bring it, understanding that at the end of the meeting and when a decision is made we go away in agreement and supporting the decision he has made.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Conflict!! Nothing Great ever happens without some good old fashion conflict. My Pastor expects conflict&#8230;and we bring it, understanding that at the end of the meeting and when a decision is made we go away in agreement and supporting the decision he has made.</p>
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