Comments on: Is This All Men Think About?

By: Reputation « Resistable Revolution

Reputation « Resistable Revolution — Sat, 03 Jan 2009 02:40:22 +0000

[...] wrote some great posts about this a while back here and here, and Pete Wilson jumped into the mix for part two. I look at it like this: if the image that you are trying to portray is that of a Godly [...]

By: Jeff Goins

Jeff Goins — Tue, 30 Sep 2008 01:32:54 +0000

ah yes, the second glance. the bane of my existence. i wish that i could get thru a day without having to make this choice. oi vey.

By: It’s Your Lucky Day « brandi & boys

It’s Your Lucky Day « brandi & boys — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 12:17:30 +0000

[...] few months ago my husband wrote a post entitled Is This All Men Think About? Which revisited the age-old question of how men react to women. Not long after that we received [...]

By: talialovesyou

talialovesyou — Wed, 21 May 2008 20:15:04 +0000

ummm yes, women get blamed far too much for “causing our brothers to stumble”. whatever. if i am dressing against the convictions God has given me, THAT is my problem and my fault, NOT if men choose to look at me as a sexual object. regardless of what we wear, most of us do NOT want to be reduced to “object” status and do not choose or endorse it. a women in a short skirt deserves every bit as much respect as a woman in a more traditionally “modest” skirt, and therein lies the problem. too many men are still requiring women to always look sexy for them and then attacking them because they “caused them to sin”. and too many leaders of both genders continue to pin the blame for the mens’ misconduct on the women.

By: The Sex Talk « Minnowspeaks Weblog

The Sex Talk « Minnowspeaks Weblog — Tue, 20 May 2008 12:20:35 +0000

[...] about modesty here. And, Pete Willson picked up the discussion from a guy’s perspective here. Julie Clawson began a dialogue about sex with a review of the book, PORN NATION, on her blog at [...]

By: FlowerDust.net | Anne Jackson » Blog Archive » my thoughts on boobies, part 3…affecting other women

Mon, 19 May 2008 18:10:50 +0000

[...] the last week, i have had some great conversations about my thoughts on boobies, part 1 and pete’s rendition of it on his blog as part [...]

By: Tom Becker

Tom Becker — Mon, 19 May 2008 09:23:24 +0000

I think it’s both men and women’s responsibility. Women should keep an eye on how they dress and men need to watch out and watch where our eyes go. In the end it’s up to the men ti take responsibility for their actions.. Instead of women watching what they wear keeping us guys in mind, what about keeping in mind what Christ would want them to do.

Also, it’s not just the boobs. What about legs and short skirts?

By: say no to crack « beauty and depravity

say no to crack « beauty and depravity — Mon, 19 May 2008 08:17:00 +0000

[...] women to dress modestly and the second, “Is This All Men Think About?” is from Pete Wilson at Without Wax [a pastor in [...]

By: gsmartin

gsmartin — Sun, 18 May 2008 07:53:22 +0000

Hmmm … I have to agree with both of your points but would add that if a man goes into the day with the idea already in place that that is not a path he needs to let his mind go down it’s easier (at least for me) to not get caught up in the moment.

Also, believe the woman has a responsibility to not push the issue. To try to get the man to look and keep looking.

Don’t believe the problem is in the noticing or in noticing your being noticed. Rather, its what one does after that which matters. We were all made with senses that respond to what they become aware of and we were all made with the ability to make a choice about what we have sensed.

By: Dave Anderson

Dave Anderson — Sat, 17 May 2008 16:38:38 +0000

Sex Pete.